Counteroffer: the false good idea that can hinder your career

When an employee decides to change jobs, it is never an impulsive choice. Between discussions with a new recruiter, getting their family’s approval, successful interviews and the prospect of a new project, the decision is generally carefully thought through. Yet everything can waver at the moment they announce their departure, when the current employer suddenly makes a counter-offer. It is a flattering situation, but one that can become a real professional trap. This is also an issue we regularly encounter at Morgan Philips, as an executive search firm.

You wanted to leave, and it was no accident

A decision to move on always stems from a deep-seated need: more progression, recognition, meaning or stability. A counter-offer does not extinguish these motivations. It simply attempts to postpone a frustration that has already taken root. In most cases, professionals who go back on their decision are faced with the same reality as before: lack of prospects, an unchanged management model, a rigid organisation. Moreover, a counter-offer often has more to do with pride than with a genuine plan: for the employer, it is mainly about avoiding immediate destabilisation, not building your future.

According to the field experience of the consultants at Morgan Philips, an executive search firm, a very large proportion of employees who have accepted a counter-offer end up leaving the company within the following year. This figure reflects a simple reality: when the desire to leave is deeply rooted, a last-minute catch-up does not change anything in the long term.

Your internal image can be weakened as soon as the next day

Announcing that you are leaving and then going back on your decision inevitably changes your position within the company. Management, aware that you were ready to leave the organisation, may hesitate to entrust you with sensitive or strategic projects. A form of tacit mistrust sets in.
Your internal progression may slow down, your ambitions may be perceived differently and your teams may question your stability. Headhunters often observe this: an employee who has accepted a counter-offer is rarely perceived in the same way afterwards.

This perception, even if silent, can have a real impact on your career.

Saying no to your future employer closes a door that will not always reopen

Accepting a counter-offer also means turning down a company that had chosen you, invested time in you and bet on you. In certain specialised sectors, such a reversal can cause lasting damage to your reputation.

For a future employer, this kind of last-minute cancellation can be interpreted as a lack of reliability. In narrow markets, where everyone knows each other, declining a role after having accepted it can leave a mark.

As an executive search firm, Morgan Philips regularly supports companies that are then hesitant to recontact a candidate who has already gone back on their decision. This is an often underestimated but essential factor: a professional door closed today may represent a lost opportunity tomorrow.

In conclusion

A counter-offer gives the illusion of a return to stability, but it does not resolve the underlying reasons that led you to consider leaving. It can weaken your internal status and damage your image with a potential future employer. Before accepting, it is essential to weigh the long-term consequences rather than the immediate benefit.

The experience of Morgan Philips’ recruitment experts shows that choices driven by emotion or pressure in the moment are rarely the most favourable for a professional career path.

Thinking, comparing, analysing: this is what enables you to create a real career turning point, far more than a counter-offer obtained in a rush.